Tips and Techniques: How to Be Good in Bed
You don’t have to be a porn star to be good in bed. You can make sex be mind-blowing by just applying the following tips to your sexual life. These tips apply to both sexes.
1. First, have an open mind
This is one thing that most of us don’t do, but can have a massive effect to your sexual life if applied. Be open and natural, don’t put yourself in a box but expand your sexual horizons. Here are the few things you can do;
Read erotica. Make sure you get a couple of erotic books or magazines as this will you’re your mind to new sexual ideas and sex positions.
You might be thinking that the sexual fantasies you have are a bit absurd and your partner might find you weird. Most of the times these thoughts are not true, ask your partner his or her sexual fantasies you may be amazed that you both have the same sexual fantasies.
Try new things during sex, although I’m not saying that you should do things that you are not comfortable with. Try things that you have heard people say they have done, yet you haven’t tried yet. Not because you are uncomfortable with them but because you just haven’t tried it.
2. Oral sex is always the best
No man in this world hates oral sex and no woman in this world hates oral sex. If you are a man go down on your lady, she will love it. The same goes if you’re a lady. If you want to be awesome in bed, oral sex is a must. Here are some tips to make oral sex awesome.
Most men love it when you take in just the tip, rather than the whole enchilada. That is the most sensitive part and he will love it. The same goes for a lady. Just caress the lips on her vagina as it is the most sensitive part (other than the clitoris).
Your tongue is the one that satisfies your man or lady, not your lips. Use your tongue well, as it will make you an expert in bed.
3. Start with your hands
Your hands assume a role of being a sexual organ in bed as they alone can leave your man or lady satisfied. Here are some tips on hand manipulation.
Massage your man before sex if you’re a lady, and if you’re a man caress your lady gently. Foreplay before the real act consists of deep kissing but also a good massage can help get the mood right for the real act. If you are massaging your man, use coconut or almond oil as it will enable your hands (and other body parts) to slip and slide easily.
Play with your man’s balls but be gentle as they are very sensitive, you don’t want to spoil he moment.
4. Experiment with positions
This is one is very crucial for you to be good in bed. There are endless examples of sexual positions that you can add to your repertoire. Most of the sexual positions information can be found freely on the internet like missionary style, doggy style, cowgirl style, cat style and many others.
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